*WHAT HINDERS UNITY IN MARRIAGE* 1. LACK OF VISION When you two have no vision rallying you as a couple, what will bring you together and keep you going? Vision creates a team 2. INTERFERENCE FROM PARENTS When you allow your parents to rule your home or undermine your spouse, their voices will break unity 3. UNFORGIVENESS Holding grudges pushes you two apart and can even lead to revenge instead of building together 4. SECRETS This keeps you from being fully one. Try your best to create an atmosphere where you both can talk about anything without fear or judgment 5. LACK OF SEX Do not underestimate the power of sex to form an unbreakable bond. Sex is emotional, physical, spiritual and mental 6. EGO When you only think about yourself you will struggle to celebrate your spouse, to listen to your spouse's opinion and to humbly receive correction; thus threatening unity 7. AFFAIRS Emotional or sexual affairs will distract you from fostering unity. A piece of you...